Keeper of the calendar is an interchangeable word for mom. While we coordinate, balance, and schedule all throughout the year I think we can all agree that it’s a whole new level of scheduling over the holiday season. Suddenly, you go from only having to work out the details of the schedule with the people within your four walls to suddenly having to coordinate schedules with a lot of people outside your household, including those you might only see during the holiday season.
I know I am personally guilty of trying to do it all. Create and maintain the traditions, visit Santa, bake the cookies, do the crafts, get the matching jammies, and we haven’t even gotten to the decorating, shopping or wrapping yet. No wonder it’s easy to be exhausted and easily agitated this time of the year.
As the keeper of the calendar, let’s strive to create a family-friendly holiday schedule this year to aid in a joyful, relaxed, and memorable season. Prioritize the “can’t miss” moments that your immediate family looks forward to and then fill in as appropriate from there.
As the keeper of the calendar, learn how to set boundaries for yourself and your family and get comfortable with the idea that it’s ok to say no and turn down invitations and requests. Allow time for quiet days at home to provide downtime and family bonding. Some of the best memories are made on days when you just relax at home, baking together or playing games.
As the chaos coordinator, I mean keeper of the calendar, it’s important to be flexible and not stress out when things don’t go as planned. We all know that as soon as we think we have the schedule, all figured out that life is going to happen in the form of illness, weather, or general fatigue. I constantly remind myself that my family doesn’t need constant activities or entertainment scheduled to enjoy themselves. My children often humble me when given a choice or asked directly what they would like to do for the evening by picking something simple and wholesome. My internal event coordinator gets a much-needed reality check in these moments on what my children really value and what they crave – moments of feeling secure, relaxed, and loved in what is hopefully their safe haven, their home.
Creating a family-friendly holiday schedule is all about balance. By focusing on meaningful activities, prioritizing quiet time, and keeping everyone’s energy in mind, you can create a holiday season that feels joyful and relaxed. This thoughtful approach to scheduling lets everyone enjoy the magic of the season without the stress, making way for a season filled with warmth, family connections, and wonderful memories.
Merry Christmas to all, and to all, a good night.
Modern Mom